My Mentors Aren’t Perfect

I’ve reached the stage where I’m aware that my mentors are not perfect, not every ounce of the legend is true, they’re human (just like me,) and that is okay. As a matter of fact, that is just perfect. If they’re human just like me, I get to be human, too. I know that there are people who look up to me because they’ve put me on a pedestal and created a legend about me. Sometimes I stay on the pedestal for a little while, because I know they need …

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Be a Lamp, Lifeboat, or Ladder

“Be a lamp, or a lifeboat, or a ladder. Help someone’s soul heal. Walk out of your house like a shepherd.” ~ Rumi My Dear One, I want you to know that it counts if that “someone” is you. As a matter of fact, it counts at least DOUBLE! As you walk out of your house or stay in, as you are a lamp, a lifeboat, or a ladder to YOURSELF, as you help YOUR soul heal, you become more and more able to help others. Be a lamp to …

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A Love Story Begins

I’d like to share a love story with you. It’s a real-life story, and it’s still in progress, so I can’t guarantee you’ll see a storybook ending. What I can offer is a look into the lives of two people doing everything they can to be loving, kind, generous, healthy, and whole. The Sweetheart drove south three hours to pick me up last week. He needed to go twelve hours north to look at a couple of cars, and he wanted my help with the driving. More than that, he …

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When I am in Sadness

I would love a little extra LOVE today. There are shifts going on in my life and I’m feeling deep sadness. Letting go only happens to make room for something better. My heart knows this, but it is also healthy to feel the grieving part. I was never allowed to grieve as a child. Even when my father died, it was only acceptable to cry on the day of his funeral. I am exploring grieving. The bittersweet, the hope, the random tears, the good memories, the anger, it’s all here in …

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